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My Lit Box Subscription Box Plus a Giveaway!

Calling all book lovers…there’s a new subscription box in town: My Lit Box!  I had the pleasure of connecting with Sanura Williams, owner and founder of My Lit Box via Instagram a few days ago.  She recently launched this subscription box last week and I’m so excited to share it with you!

I’ve featured a few different subscription boxes before on my blog, but this is the first one geared towards adults.  Read on to learn more.

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Q: How did you come up with the idea for this subscription box?

A: I had one of those Oprah “ah-ha” moments where I realized that life I was living wasn’t the life I SHOULD have been living. I knew this was largely attributed to the fact that I wasn’t passionate about what I was doing for a living.  My Lit Box is the result of my brainstorming on how to make my passion a bigger part of my life. I love to read but unfortunately, I found that I wasn’t doing it as often as I would like. Then I thought, wouldn’t it be cool if there was no guess work?  What if I could count on a new book being delivered to me monthly?  From this, My Lit Box was born!

Q: What can book lovers expect to be included inside of each box?

A:  Each month’s box will include a newly released novel by a writer of color as well as 1-2 quality bookish items that relate to that month’s theme. When it comes to the contents of each month’s box, you may open it and find journals, tote bags, candles, bookmarks, keepsakes, etc. The possibilities are endless!

Q: How are the items selected?

A: I’m constantly scouring the Internet for upcoming releases so I usually start with the novel. Once that is in place, and I’ve drawn a theme from the novel, then I begin to select products.  It’s extremely important to me that I not just throw a bunch of stuff in a box. I want my subscribers to feel as if they are receiving a box that has been carefully curated.

Q: Why writers of color?

A: I noticed that when I read lists compiling the greatest writers of our time, be it past or present, very few of the writers (1) looked like me or any other minority and (2) they weren’t any of my favorite writers. This is just my effort to shine light on an often overlooked segment of talented writers and put their works into the hands of book lovers worldwide.

Q: Ok, this all sounds great, but how much is it?

A: My Lit Box offers two month-to-month subscription options:

  • Full Plan ($25/month) – With this option you will receive one newly released novel as well as 1-2 quality bookish items
  • Book Only Plan ($17/month) – With this option you will receive one newly released novel monthly

Q: Is there a discount?

A: Here Wee Read subscribers can receive 10% off their first order by using promo code HEREWEEREAD at checkout!  Order your box today!

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The Giveaway!
I’m so excited to be hosting the very FIRST giveaway for this subscription box!  One (1) lucky winner will win a FREE subscription box courtesy of My Lit Box.  The box will ship on May 5, 2016.  Good luck!

My LitBox Subscription Box Giveaway

Books for Adults

What I’m Reading (in April 2016)

I can’t believe the last time I shared the books I’m reading was in January!  The months of February and March flew by…wow!  I assure you I was reading books, I just didn’t post them…my bad!  Sometimes I get so caught up in all of the amazing children’s books that I tend to forget to update you on the books for us adults.  By the way, if you’re a woman I highly recommend reading the book, Woman Code by Alisa Vitti.  I read that book in February and found it to be very informative and useful.  Essential reading for women of all ages.

Below are the books I’m planning to read in the month of April.  Feel free to join me if you’d like!

Recently, NPR featured a fantastic article on their website about how adults can encourage kids to be original thinkers.  Did you see it on my Facebook page?  You can read the full article here.  I love NPR!  Anyway, I found the article to be fascinating and I immediately added the book Originals to my list of books to read.

Originals: How Non-Conformists Move the World by Adam Grant
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Synopsis
Using surprising studies and stories spanning business, politics, sports, and entertainment, Grant explores how to recognize a good idea, speak up without getting silenced, build a coalition of allies, choose the right time to act, and manage fear and doubt; how parents and teachers can nurture originality in children; and how leaders can build cultures that welcome dissent. Learn from an entrepreneur who pitches his start-ups by highlighting the reasons not to invest, a woman at Apple who challenged Steve Jobs from three levels below, an analyst who overturned the rule of secrecy at the CIA, a billionaire financial wizard who fires employees for failing to criticize him, and a TV executive who didn’t even work in comedy but saved Seinfeld from the cutting-room floor. The payoff is a set of groundbreaking insights about rejecting conformity and improving the status quo.

The Lifeboat Clique by Kathy Parks
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I tend to read a lot of personal development books, but I like reading fiction books too.  Reading fiction books allow me to escape the daily grind of my own life, especially if it’s a really interesting or funny book.  I’ve heard this book is funny and since I love to laugh, I’m going to check it out even though it’s a YA (Young Adult) novel.

Synopsis
Mean Girls meets Life of Pi in this darkly humorous, compulsively readable teen novel that’s perfect for fans of Libba Bray and Andrew Smith. A hilariously dark and twisted story that sparkles with a remarkably fresh voice, The Lifeboat Clique is Kathy Parks’s irreverent yet insightful novel about how to survive in the most unthinkable circumstances.

Your turn:  What are your reading plans for the month of April?  I’d love to hear what you’re reading!  Also, do you enjoy hearing about the books I’m reading or do you prefer to read about children’s books?  Feel free to share in the comments.

Books for Adults

Spark Joy by Marie Kondo

As you may recall, the two theme words I’ve chosen for 2016 are: joy and reach.  If you missed the post where I mentioned why I chose those words, you can read all about it here.  In that post, I also told you my favorite book I read last year was  The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing by Marie Kondo.  So, I was literally jumping up and down when I found out the follow-up to that book was being published this year!  The companion book is entitled Spark Joy: An Illustrated Master Class on the Art of Organizing and Tidying Up.

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Synopsis (from Amazon)
Japanese decluttering guru Marie Kondo’s The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up has revolutionized homes—and lives—across the world. Now, Kondo presents an illustrated guide to her acclaimed KonMari Method, with step-by-step folding illustrations for everything from shirts to socks, plus drawings of perfectly organized drawers and closets. She also provides advice on frequently asked questions, such as whether to keep “necessary” items that may not bring you joy. With guidance on specific categories including kitchen tools, cleaning supplies, hobby goods, and digital photos, this comprehensive companion is sure to spark joy in anyone who wants to simplify their life.

This year I have a goal to finally declutter and organize our basement and garage.  I’m talking a complete overhaul.  Our basement isn’t finished so we’ve been using it as a storage area since we moved into our house over ten years ago.  It’s a huge space and has lots of potential, but we need to get it cleaned out.  Same goes for our garage.

I’m really looking forward to reading this book since it includes actual illustrations on exactly how to do the KonMari method.  I’m a more visual person so most times, I’d prefer to see exactly how things are done rather than have someone tell me.  I remember reading the first book thinking, “how should I be folding my clothing”?  This book will provide the answer – yay!  Thanks, Marie!  I can’t wait to dive into this book in the coming weeks!  Will you be reading?

To learn more about Marie Kondo or her books visit her website here.

Your turn:  Did you read Marie’s first book?  Are you as excited as I am to read this companion book?  Feel free to share in the comments.

Book Reviews

This Is My Year Journal: A Review and How to Use It

Happy New Year, Everyone!

I’m so excited 2016 is finally here!  I’m ready to embrace everything this new year has to offer…it’s going to be an AMAZING 366 days!  Anyone else claiming this for themselves?

I decided to purchase a gift for myself this past Christmas and I’m so happy I did!  My gift of choice?  Myleik Teele’s “This Is My Year Journal”.  I plan to use it to keep myself organized throughout the entire year.  I know you may be thinking, “How can a journal help keep you organized, shouldn’t you be using a planner?”  I’ll explain how to use the journal shortly, but first let me tell you the one thing I’ve learned about keeping a journal, then I’ll tell you who Myleik is.

This Is My Year Journal- A Review and How to Use It

Journaling: The one thing I’ve learned and Why I Do It
I’ve learned that when I record my thoughts, feelings, ideas, and actions from the past in a journal, I put yourself in a position to forge a better plan for my future.   To me, keeping a journal can help me stop guessing…and start going and doing.

Who Is Myleik?
Myleik Teele is the creator of CurlBox, one of the top-selling beauty subscription boxes for natural haired curly girls. Over the years, she’s acquired a huge social media following, not only due to the success of CurlBox, but also her tough-love advice she’s been giving to women, like myself, through her podcast over the years.  I love Myleik’s “tell it like it is” attitude.  She uses just the right words and tone of voice without sounding too “preachy” or “bossy”.  She discusses everything from how get out of a slump to offering practical (and realistic relationship advice) to sharing how she started earning over six figures working for herself over the last few years.

Reflection
The journal was in my mailbox when we came back home from our first-ever family vacation to Florida.  I was so excited to crack open the journal to see what was inside!

The first 11 pages include notes and advice from Myleik including: her plans for 2016, how to take an assessment of the prior year, how to move past being average, discovering which “season” of life you’re in right now, making self-care a priority,  8 tips to make sure this is your year, how not to fall, how to use her old journals in the new year, and finally a personal handwritten note from Myleik.  The remaining pages are blank lined pages with space for you to write.

I started using my journal on the morning of New Year’s Eve and have been using it ever since.  However, figuring out exactly how to use this journal required me to do a bit of research on my own.

I heard Myleik say in previous podcasts that her journaling method was outlined in her first journal, but I don’t own her first journal.  She also mentioned you could listen to one of her previous podcasts to learn her journaling method.  Well, I had no idea which podcast it was even after scrolling through all of them in iTunes.  So what’s a girl to do?  I simply asked someone.  Ask and ye shall receive, right?  Yep, I found someone online via Instagram who I knew purchased her first journal and simply asked them to send me a screenshot of the journaling method.  I have no idea who the person was, but she gladly sent the screenshot my way so now I’m able to share Myleik’s journaling method with you.  Ready?

How to Use This Journal

Left side of the journal – Use for journaling
Right side of the journal – Use to create lists

Tips for Journaling
Write: Use the left side of the page to journal thoughts, write down numbers, save Instagram names, websites, apps, books titles, random thoughts, ideas, quotes and whatever else you come across that day.

Tips for Creating Lists
Date: This seems like a no-brainer, but you always want to be sure that you enter the date, month, and year.

Prioritize: Start with the highest priority for the day as #1 and work your way down.

Highlight by Importance: Once you start working on the list you’ll do one of two things: If it’s a task that needs more steps to actually be completed, you highlight it YELLOW.  Myleik likes this color because it’s the brightest and it allows you to see the task clearly.

Make Notes on Next Steps: If you have highlighted the task with yellow, you can also make notes beneath it in another color pen (Myleik uses red or pink) with the notes on the “next step” you’ll need to do. For example, “Left a message with the assistant, check back tomorrow.”

Orange Means You’re Done: If you complete the task, highlight it with orange. Orange means you’re 100% done with it.

Carry Tasks Over to the Next Day: Once the day is over you can set yourself up for the next day by carrying over all of your YELLOW tasks on the new page in order of priority.

This method will keep you organized with your priorities on the top of your list each day.

Example Notes
1. Call with Jackie at 2:00pm today
2. Speaking engagement – Send my biography to the event organizer
3. Plan my birthday trip – Hawaii? California Coast? Dubai?
4. Go grocery shopping
5. Write and mail thank you cards
6. Read for 60 minutes today
7. Call mom at 6pm today to discuss family vacation
8. Schedule doctor appointments for the kids
9. Meeting with accountability partner Friday at 7pm
10. Hair appointment Saturday at 10am

If you own this journal and don’t know how to use it, I hope you’ve found this post to be helpful.  Happy Journaling!

To learn more about Myleik or purchase one of her journals visit her website.

Disclaimer: This is not a sponsored post.  I purchased this journal with my own money.  All opinions expressed are my own.

Your turn: Do you journal?  What are your best tips for staying organized?  Feel free to share in the comments.

Books for Adults

What I’m Reading (in January 2016)

Like many of you, I see the new year as an exciting opportunity to set some epic goals for the year ahead. This year is no different and one I’m very excited by is my goal to read for at least 30 minutes every day in 2016.  This 30 minutes won’t include reading children’s books with the kids either.  I’m talking about reading books just for me whether they be physical books, e-books, or audio books.

Here are my picks for January 2016:

Year of Yes: How to Dance It Out, Stand In the Sun and Be Your Own Person by Shonda Rhimes
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I LOVE anything that Shonda Rhimes is involved with (especially Scandal) so I’m sure I’m going to enjoy reading this gem.  I’ve heard nothing but great things about this one!

Synopsis:  This poignant, intimate, and hilarious memoir explores Shonda’s life before her Year of Yes—from her nerdy, book-loving childhood creating imaginary friends to her devotion to creating television characters who reflected the world she saw around her.  And it chronicles her life after her Year of Yes had begun—when Shonda forced herself out of the house and onto the stage, appearing on Jimmy Kimmel Live, and giving the Dartmouth Commencement speech; when she learned to say yes to her health, yes to play and she stepped out of the shadows and into the sun; when she learned to explore, empower, applaud, and love her truest self. Yes.

This wildly candid and compulsively readable book reveals how the mega talented Shonda Rhimes, an unexpected introvert, achieved badassery worthy of a Shondaland character. And how you can, too.

Wake Up Happy: The Dream Big, Win Big Guide to Transforming Your Life by Michael Strahan

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I never watched Michael Strahan play football for the New York Giants, but ever since he started hosting the morning show with Kelly Ripa I started following and discovered I adore him.  He’s appears to be such an optimistic, down-to-earth, easy-going guy.  Therefore, I’m interested to read this and learn more about him and his views on life and dreaming big.

Synopsis:  In Wake Up Happy, Michael shares personal stories about how he gets and stays motivated and how readers can do the same in their quest to attain their life goals.  Inspiring and chock full of advice that will help the reader make significant strides toward pursuing his or her dream, Wake Up Happy is a book no one, young or old, male or female will want to miss.

Best Friends Forever by Kimberla Lawson Roby
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If possible, I like to have at least one fiction book in the mix of books I’m reading during any given month.  I enjoyed reading some of Kimberla Lawson Roby’s books in the past so I’m excited to read her latest book.  Sounds like a good one!

Synopsis:  Things are falling apart in the Richardson household. Angry arguments between Celine and her husband, Keith, have become routine. She resents that he’s working long hours and staying out all night, and he accuses her of not giving him the attention he deserves. Their marriage is at a cross-roads and Celine worries how her 10-year-old daughter, Kassie, will be affected.

But the situation turns devastating when Celine is diagnosed with breast cancer. As her relationship with Keith deteriorates, Celine worries that she’ll be left to navigate the difficult process of cancer treatment alone. But comfort and support come in the form of Celine’s best friend, Lauren. They’ve been attached at the hip since they were children and it is Lauren who’s there for Celine in her darkest moments.

Now, Celine will be forced to make tough decisions-about her marriage and otherwise-and for the first time in her life, she wants to give up. Lauren vows to help by any means necessary and makes the kind of sacrifice only a best friend can. But will it be too late?

Your turn:  What are your reading goals for the new year?  What books do you think I should read in 2016?  If you have any suggestions please feel free to share in the comments.

Books for Adults

What I’m Reading (in November 2015)

I noticed I haven’t written a post to update you all on the books I’m reading.  It’s not that I’ve forgotten to write the posts, instead you can find my current reads of the month listed over on the right hand side.  However, it dawned on me that many people read blogs and websites on their phones nowadays, therefore you won’t see the books listed if using a handheld device.

Usually I like to read at least 2-3 books per month, but for the month of November I’m only going to read one book.  I’ve heard so many amazing things about this book so I really want to sink my teeth into it and focus on it.  I’m sure many of you have already heard of it as it’s been receiving rave reviews all over the Internet and social media.

The book I’ve chosen is none other than Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear by Elizabeth Gilbert.  She’s the same author who wrote the book Eat, Pray, Love.  I never read that book, but I absolutely adore the movie!

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Synopsis (from Amazon)
Readers of all ages and walks of life have drawn inspiration and empowerment from Elizabeth Gilbert’s books for years. Now this beloved author digs deep into her own generative process to share her wisdom and unique perspective about creativity. With profound empathy and radiant generosity, she offers potent insights into the mysterious nature of inspiration. She asks us to embrace our curiosity and let go of needless suffering. She shows us how to tackle what we most love, and how to face down what we most fear. She discusses the attitudes, approaches, and habits we need in order to live our most creative lives. Balancing between soulful spirituality and cheerful pragmatism, Gilbert encourages us to uncover the “strange jewels” that are hidden within each of us. Whether we are looking to write a book, make art, find new ways to address challenges in our work,  embark on a dream long deferred, or simply infuse our everyday lives with more mindfulness and passion, Big Magic cracks open a world of wonder and joy.

After reading this book I also plan to write a review so stay tuned for that in the coming weeks.  If you’re so inclined, read this book next month on your own and join me!

P.S. I’m currently obsessed with this video of Marie Forleo and Elizabeth Gilbert discussing the book.  Check it out if you have about 45 minutes to spare.  So worth listening to!

Your turn:  Have you read this book yet or is it on your “to read” list?  Feel free to share in the comments.

Book Reviews

Destiny: Step Into Your Purpose (A Book Review)

Destiny: Step Into Your Purpose
by T.D. Jakes

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Book Summary
In this book, T.D. Jakes teaches you to find order in the steps of your life and have the courage to say yes to destiny. We all have a destiny. Finding the courage to drive past the challenges, pains, and even the shortcuts of life to the deeper purpose of living is to thrive in one’s divine destiny.

Most people have sensed destiny pulling them to just the right place or person. Whether it is the spouse you meet, or the children you bear, or the promotion you receive, everyone has a purpose to pursue. Sometimes it is understanding our destiny that helps us accept what on the surface appears to be failure.

Throughout the book, T.D. Jakes shares insight to help you play the roles you were designed for. Expanding on his #1 bestselling book Instinct, Jakes reveals that instinct is the first step to the destiny that awaits.

Author Background
Thomas Dexter, better known as Bishop T.D. Jakes, has turned his lifelong love of Scripture into a thriving empire that has inspired millions of people around the world.  Jakes is the bishop of The Potter House, a megachurch with over 30,000 members.  His ministry program, The Potter’s Touch, is televised to 3.3 million viewers weekly.

If you’ve never heard of him before, I think T.D. Jakes can be best described as one of the most influential black thought leaders in America today.  With his very charismatic demeanor, he’s a visionary and provocative thinker.  Jakes is also a communicator, evangelist, entrepreneur, philanthropist and bestselling author of over 25 books.

Reflection
To say that I enjoyed this book would be an understatement.  I truly LOVED this book!  It spoke to the very depths of my soul and came into my life at the perfect time.  I devoured this book in just two days while on a mini family vacation over the summer.

The book starts out with Jakes recounting a conversation he had on an elevator with the late Coretta Scott King several years ago during her last days.  He asked her why she never remarried and she said, “I was called to be his wife”.  It was in those moments after his interaction with Mrs. King that Jakes began to ponder about his own destiny.  Hence, he wrote this amazing book to help others clear their paths of distractions and disruptions and get on the path to destiny.

This is the first book I’ve read that was written by T.D. Jakes.  The thing I noticed right away was his writing style.  It’s exactly like his speaking style…straight and to the point.  No sugar coating.  As I was reading the book, it felt like he was right there in the room preaching a private sermon to me.  It might sound funny, but I could actually hear his voice in my head as I read each word.

Throughout the book, Jakes shares stories of some of the challenges and setbacks he faced throughout his life while traveling on the path to his destiny.  He tells readers to get their relationships, money, and thoughts in step with their destiny and pull away from visionless people who have no plans for their future.  He also urges you to pour into relationships that pour into you and discusses the importance of being intentional about the people you are connected to.

There are so many great nuggets of wisdom sprinkled throughout this book that I took note of.  Here are just a few:

  • Leave behind small thinking and think big – always go above and beyond.
  • Stop allowing minor thoughts to occupy your mind.
  • If you pray for an oak tree, God will send you an acorn because things can come from small beginnings.  Don’t throw the acorn away because your tree is the seed.  God works through the agricultural principle of planting a seed and reaping a harvest.
  • There are times when emptiness is needed so that God can be allowed to fill a void.
  • God can use disorder to create a new order in your life.
  • Be determined to invest in yourself despite delays, setbacks, and sidetracks.
  • The most important things in life require struggle.
  • Destiny becomes reality when you partner with God.  Be open to listening to God.
  • Let God fight the battles you can’t win for yourself.
  • Add someone you your life who is smarter, more knowledgeable or accomplished than you and learn from them.
  • To expand your knowledge and exposure in life, let go of the easy and familiar.
  • Be careful with the gift of time.  Every day is a withdrawal from the bank of time.
  • Don’t spend your time obsessing about what others are doing.  Don’t be jealous.
  • Declare there is more inside you yet to be discovered and focus your attention on getting it.
  • The journey to destiny requires a curious mind.
  • Gain knowledge from unlikely sources.  Knowledge comes from all types of people and sources.

Although there were some points in this book I’ve heard other motivational speakers say before, they weren’t articulated quite the same way that T.D. Jakes said them.  His matter-of-fact tone really resonated with me.

Throughout each revealing chapter, Jakes shares how stepping into his purpose got him where he is today. He is also transparent about a few of the mistakes he made along the way, what he learned from each and how he overcame them.

I really felt T.D. Jakes’s charismatic personality shine through in each chapter as he unfolded each topic with lots of colorful anecdotes and high-paced energy.  Overall, I think this is one of the most inspirational and motivational books I’ve read in a while.  I would highly recommend it to anyone who is ready to discover how to step into their God given destiny and purpose in life. I think this book is an excellent blue print that outlines the steps you need to take to reach your destiny.  A winner!

Your turn:  Have you read this book yet?  Have you figured out your destiny and purpose in life yet?  If so, what is it?  Feel free to share in the comments.

Books for Adults

Ten Parenting Books to Read

A few weeks ago a soon-to-be first-time mom asked me for some great parenting books to read.  I rattled off the names of my top three parenting books to her, but then realized I left out a few more.  Therefore, I thought this topic was worthy of a blog post just in case there were other moms, dads, moms-to-be, or dads-to-be who could benefit from this information.

Many of the books I usually recommend continuously top all of the parenting best-seller charts time and time again.  After reading all of the books I mention below it’s easy to see why they remain among the best-selling ones for parents.  There are so many amazing books available today and it’s hard to choose, but I’ve narrowed down my list to ten books that I found to be most helpful in my parenting journey.  I hope you’ll find them to be helpful too.

Of course, you don’t have to read parenting books to be a good parent, but if you’re open to gaining some new perspectives, ideas and insights read on…

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish
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I think this book is hands down one of the best parenting books I’ve ever read!  It’s chock full of down-to-earth approaches for keeping the lines of communication open with your children, so you can talk openly and honestly about their worries, hopes, joys and fears. Even though both of my kids are currently under the age of 3, I can definitely see how well the book’s suggestions work.  The best part is my kids cooperate without me having to use any bribes, threats, lies or yelling.

The Conscious Parent: Transforming Ourselves, Empowering Our Children by Shefali Tsabary, PhD
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I purchased this book after seeing Dr. Tsabary appear on Oprah’s Super Soul Sunday.  I was so curious and intrigued by her interview and perspective on disciplining and raising children that I just had to dig deeper.  By reading this book I realized in order to be the parent my children need me to be, I must be open to the possibility that as much as I am here to teach them, they are also here to teach me.  So profound!

The one thing I will mention about this book is to have an open mind before reading it.  If your main way to discipline children is in the form of spanking or hitting be open to learning a new perspective.  P.S. I don’t believe in spanking/hitting as a form of discipline, but I know many people who do and who were raised to believe this is the best way (or the only way) to get children to listen/behave.  I found Dr. Tsabary’s point-of-view to be so refreshing!

No-Drama Discipline by Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. and Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D.
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I’m reading this book now and I love it!  This is another book that provides an effective, compassionate road map for dealing with tantrums, tensions, and tears—without yelling and causing a scene.

The Happiest Baby on the Block by Harvey Karp, M.D.
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I learned about this book and the accompanying DVD from the pre-natal classes my husband and I took when I was pregnant with our daughter.  I found this book (and the DVD) to be extremely helpful as they taught me how to calm a crying baby instantly with such ease.   These tips worked like magic,  no kidding.  I was stunned to see how quickly all of the babies in the DVD stopped crying so I read the book to get more helpful tips.

Fun on the Run: 324 Instant Family Activities by Cynthia Copeland

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This is not your average parenting book, but it’s been my saving grace over the past year since I heard about it.

It’s instant fun. Activities to do in minutes. Super-quick games to roll out at a moment’s notice. This book is a perfect antidote to those long car rides, endless waits in the doctor’s office, and restaurant fidgetiness.

15 Minutes Outside by Rebecca Cohen

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This book was written by a mom who made a New Year’s resolution to take her kids outside every day for one year.  She managed to keep that resolution despite the weather conditions outside.

This inspiring collection of activities gives families an idea for every day of the year sorted by the season.  Each activity requires little planning, no expertise and relatively little resources (time, cash, or patience!), no matter where you live. Simple and inspiring, this book is bursting with hundreds of easy ways to get your family out into nature a little bit every day.

The Sleepeasy Solution by Jennifer Waldburger

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If you are a parent-to-be or a sleep deprived parent to an infant you’ll want to read this book.  I read this almost three years ago shortly after giving birth to my daughter.  From this book you’ll learn why it’s important for babies to learn how to sleep.  It also provides step-by-step instructions on how to get your baby to sleep.  It even gives you little pep talks throughout for times when you feel like throwing in the towel.

The Whole Brain Child by Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. and Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D.

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Written by the same authors of How to Talk So Your Kids Will Listen and Listen So Your Kids Will Talk, this book offers twelve strategies to nurture your child’s developing mind. I find this book to be an excellent resource filled with so much practical advice that’s easy to follow.  I still refer to it often.

Siblings Without Rivalry: How to Help Your Children Live Together So You Can Live Too by Elaine Mazlish and Adele Faber

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If you have more than one child like me, you’ll definitely want to get your hands on this book!  I’m not promising your kids will be “perfect angels” and won’t argue ever again, but if you follow the advice provided you may see a dramatic difference in the way they communicate with one another.  I think this book is a gem!

Brain Rules for Baby by John Medina

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In this book, the science of a child’s growing brain is explained in layman’s terms. Check out the accompanying online videos by John Medina.  I watched them years ago on YouTube.

Your turn:  What are some of your favorite parenting books? What books did I miss?  Feel free to share in the comments.

Books for Adults

What I’m Reading (in August 2015)

August is officially here!  Only one more month until both of my munchkins start school on September 1st.  What a bittersweet day that will be for me…sigh!  They are seriously getting too big, too fast.

Below are the books I’ve chosen for the month of August.  Enjoy!

Praying Upside Down: A Creative Prayer Experience to Transform Your Time with God by Kelly O’Dell Stanley
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When you talk to God, do you ever wonder if He really hears? Do your prayers start to feel rote or routine? Do you sometimes feel you don’t even know how to pray? Jesus is known for turning situations upside down . . . and He can do the same in your prayer life.

A Curious Mind: The Secret to a Bigger Life by Brian Grazer

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When this book recommendation appeared in my e-mail inbox earlier this week I just knew I had to get it!  Oprah’s best friend, Gayle King, raved about this book so I want to check it out for myself.

A Curious Mind is a brilliantly entertaining, fascinating, and inspiring homage to the power of inquisitiveness and the ways in which it deepens and improves us. Whether you’re looking to improve your management style at work or you want to become a better romantic partner, this book—and its lessons on the power of curiosity—can change your life.

The Husband’s Secret by Liane Moriarty

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I read the book Big Little Lies in July and it was AMAZING!  If you haven’t read it yet, you totally should!  I enjoy this author’s writing style so much that I had to follow up with another one of her books for August.

Imagine your husband wrote you a letter, to be opened after his death. Imagine, too, that the letter contains his deepest, darkest secret—something with the potential to destroy not only the life you have built together, but the lives of others as well. And then imagine that you stumble across that letter while your husband is still very much alive.

Cecilia Fitzpatrick has achieved it all—she’s an incredibly successful businesswoman, a pillar of her small community, a devoted wife and mother. Her life is as orderly and spotless as her home. But that letter is about to change everything—and not just for her. There are other women who barely know Cecilia—or each other—but they, too, are about to feel the earth-shattering repercussions of her husband’s secret.

No-Drama Discipline: The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind by Daniel J. Siegel

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The pioneering experts behind The Whole-Brain Child—Tina Payne Bryson and Daniel J. Siegel, the author of Brainstorm—now explore the ultimate child-raising challenge: discipline. Highlighting the fascinating link between a child’s neurological development and the way a parent reacts to misbehavior, No-Drama Discipline provides an effective, compassionate road map for dealing with tantrums, tensions, and tears—without causing a scene.

Your turn:  Have you read any of these books?  What’s in your reading stack for the month of August?  Feel free to share in the comments.

Books for Adults

Sneak Peek: My August Book of the Month

Praying Upside Down: A Creative Prayer Experience to Transform Your Time with God by Kelly O’Dell Stanley

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Here is a sneak peek of one of the books I’ll be reading next month.  When I came across this book on display at the book store last week I just had to purchase it!  The title of the book caught my eye right away for two reasons: 1) I’ve been wanting to deepen and strengthen my prayer experience and time with God. 2) I wondered what the heck does praying upside down mean?  I’ve never heard this term before so I’m intrigued to learn more.

I am a firm believer in prayer and talking to God, but I know I don’t pray nearly as much as I should.  I tend to pray more and have conversations with God whenever I’m in a bind, a rut, or when things aren’t going so well.  I know I should pray and talk to God in good times as well as bad times, so I’m hoping this book will provide some great tips to help me transform my prayer life and actually stick to it.

I’ll be reviewing this book in the coming weeks when I finish it so stay tuned!

Your turn:  Have you read this book before?  If so, what do you think of it (without giving too much away)?  Do you also want to strengthen your prayer life and time with God?  Feel free to let me know in the comments.

Books for Adults

Upcoming Book Releases for Children and Adults

There are lots of promising new book releases coming out in the next few months for both children and adults.  I’ve rounded up some books to get excited about that you may want to pre-order or put on hold at your local library.  Read on.

upcoming book releases

July 2015
I’m Trying to Love Spiders by Bethany Barton (Children’s Book)
Release Date: July 7, 2015

I’m Trying to Love Spiders will help you see these amazing arachnids in a whole new light, from their awesomely excessive eight eyes, to the seventy-five pounds of bugs a spider can eat in a single year! And you’re sure to feel better knowing you have a better chance of being struck by lightning than being fatally bit by a spider. Comforting, right? No? Either way, there’s heaps more information in here to help you forget your fears . . . or at least laugh a lot!

Dad’s First Day by Mike Wohnoutka (Children’s Book)
Release Date: July 7, 2015

All summer Oliver and his dad played together, laughed together, sang together, and read together.  Now it’s time for Oliver to start school!  On the first day, Oliver’s dad isn’t quite ready. . . . Suddenly he feels nervous. His tummy hurts, and he would rather stay home.

But Oliver isn’t convinced. What if the first day is really fun? What if it’s the start of an exciting year?

In this charming story of first-day jitters, acclaimed author and illustrator Mike Wohnoutka perfectly captures the mixed emotions felt by kids and their parents when big changes are afoot.

The Black Star of Kingston by S.D. Smith (Children’s/Adult Book)
Release Date: July 13, 2015

Whitson Mariner and Fleck Blackstar face old fears and new enemies, forging a legend that will echo through the ages.  Old wars haunt. New enemies threaten. An oath is born.  A hero rises.

Granddaddy’s Turn by Michael S. Bandy (Children’s Book)
Release Date: July 14, 2015

Based on the true story of one family’s struggle for voting rights in the civil rights–era South, this moving tale shines an emotional spotlight on a dark facet of U.S. history.

Life on the farm with Granddaddy is full of hard work, but despite all the chores, Granddaddy always makes time for play, especially fishing trips. Even when there isn’t a bite to catch, he reminds young Michael that it takes patience to get what’s coming to you. One morning, when Granddaddy heads into town in his fancy suit, Michael knows that something very special must be happening?—?and sure enough, everyone is lined up at the town hall! For the very first time, Granddaddy is allowed to vote, and he couldn’t be more proud.

Wait by Antoinette Portis (Children’s Book)
Release Date: July 14, 2015

As a boy and his mother move quickly through the city, they’re drawn to different things. The boy sees a dog, a butterfly, and a hungry duck while his mother rushes them toward the departing train. It’s push and pull, but in the end, they both find something to stop for.

Lillian’s Right to Vote: A Celebration of the Voting Rights Act of 1965 by Jonah Winter (Children’s Book)
Release Date: July 14, 2015

An elderly African American woman, en route to vote, remembers her family’s tumultuous voting history in this picture book publishing in time for the fiftieth anniversary of the Voting Rights Act of 1965.

As Lillian, a one-hundred-year-old African American woman, makes a “long haul up a steep hill” to her polling place, she sees more than trees and sky—she sees her family’s history. She sees the passage of the Fifteenth Amendment and her great-grandfather voting for the first time. She sees her parents trying to register to vote. And she sees herself marching in a protest from Selma to Montgomery.

Steve Jobs: Insanely Great by Jessie Hartland (Adult Book)
Release Date: July 21, 2015

This fast-paced and entertaining biography in graphic format is a perfect complement to more text-heavy books on Steve Jobs like Walter Isaacson’s biography. Presenting the story of the ultimate American entrepreneur, who brought us Apple Computer, Pixar, Macs, iPods, iPhones and more, this unique and stylish book is sure to appeal to the legions of readers who live and breathe the techno-centric world Jobs created.

Jobs’s remarkable life reads like a history of the personal technology industry. He started Apple Computer in his parents’ garage and eventually became the tastemaker of a generation, creating products we can’t live without. Through it all, he was an overbearing and demanding perfectionist, both impossible and inspiring.

8: An Animal Alphabet by Elisha Cooper (Children’s Book)
Release Date: July 28, 2015

Explore the animal world, from aardvark to zebu!

Discover hundreds of animals, great and small. Lion and lizard, whale and wombat. Learn one wild fact about each animal. (Did you know that gorillas yawn when they are nervous?) Look carefully, because for each letter of the alphabet, one animal is pictured eight times. Why 8? Come inside and find out.

What Pet Should I Get? by Dr. Seuss (Children’s Book)
Release Date: July 28, 2015

This never-ever-before-seen picture book by Dr. Seuss about making up one’s mind is the literary equivalent of buried treasure! What happens when a brother and sister visit a pet store to pick a pet? Naturally, they can’t choose just one! The tale captures a classic childhood moment—choosing a pet—and uses it to illuminate a life lesson: that it is hard to make up your mind, but sometimes you just have to do it!

Told in Dr. Seuss’s signature rhyming style, this is a must-have for Seuss fans and book collectors.

August 2015
Get Out of My Bath! by Nosy Crow, Britta Teckentrup (Illustrator) (Children’s Book)
Release Date: August 4, 2015

Ellie the elephant loves to have fun in the bath, but she’s not the only one. Her fun is interrupted when a crocodile decides to join her, followed by a flamingo, then a mouse and even a tiger! Poor Ellie’s bath is ruined. What can she do? She sucks all the water into her trunk, of course! Then she waits until all the uninvited animals have left before squirting it back. Finally she can enjoy her bath in peace!

The Day the Crayons Came Home by Drew Daywalt (Author), Oliver Jeffers (Illustrator) (Children’s Book)
Release Date: August 18, 2015

The companion to the #1 blockbuster bestseller, The Day the Crayons Quit!

From Maroon Crayon, who was lost beneath the sofa cushions and then broken in two after Dad sat on him; to poor Turquoise, whose head is now stuck to one of Duncan’s stinky socks after they both ended up in the dryer together; to Pea Green, who knows darn well that no kid likes peas and who ran away—each and every crayon has a woeful tale to tell and a plea to be brought home to the crayon box.

The Wonderful Things Will Be by Emily Martin (Children’s Book)
Release Date: August 25, 2015

From brave and bold to creative and clever, the rhythmic rhyme expresses all the loving things that parents think of when they look at their children. With beautiful, and sometimes humorous, illustrations, this is a book grown-ups will love reading over and over to kids—both young and old. A great gift for any occasion, but a special stand-out for baby showers, birthdays, and graduation. The Wonderful Things You Will Be has a loving and truthful message that will endure for lifetimes.

Rising Strong by Brene Brown (Adult Book)
Release Date: August 25, 2015

Our stories of struggle can be big ones, like the loss of a job or the end of a relationship, or smaller ones, like a conflict with a friend or colleague. Regardless of magnitude or circumstance, the rising strong process is the same: We reckon with our emotions and get curious about what we’re feeling; we rumble with our stories until we get to a place of truth; and we live this process, every day, until it becomes a practice and creates nothing short of a revolution in our lives. Rising strong after a fall is how we cultivate wholeheartedness. It’s the process, Brown writes, that teaches us the most about who we are.

September 2015
The Girl in the Spider’s Web by David Lagercrantz (Adult Book)
Release Date: September 1, 2015

This fall, Lisbeth Salander and Mikael Blomkvist return in the highly anticipated follow-up to Stieg Larsson’s THE GIRL WHO KICKED THE HORNET’S NEST

In this adrenaline-charged thriller, genius-hacker Lisbeth Salander and journalist Mikael Blomkvist face a dangerous new threat and must again join forces.

Late one night, Blomkvist receives a phone call from a trusted source claiming to have information vital to the United States. The source has been in contact with a young female super hacker–a hacker resembling someone Blomkvist knows all too well. The implications are staggering.

The Bear and the Piano by David Litchfield (Children’s Book)
Release Date: September 1, 2015

One day, a young bear stumbles upon something he has never seen before in the forest. As time passes, he teaches himself how to play the strange instrument, and eventually the beautiful sounds are heard by a father and son who are picnicking in the woods. The bear goes with them on an incredible journey to New York, where his piano playing makes him a huge star. He has fame, fortune and all the music in the world, but he misses the friends and family he has left behind. A moving tale of exploration and belonging from an exciting debut author-illustrator.

October 2015

Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone: The Illustrated Edition by J.K. Rowling (Children’s Book)
Release Date:  October 6, 2015

For the first time, J. K. Rowling’s beloved Harry Potter books will be presented in lavishly illustrated full-color editions. Kate Greenaway-award winning artist Jim Kay has created over 100 stunning illustrations, making this deluxe format a perfect gift as much for a child being introduced to the series, as for the dedicated fan.

November 2015

Diary of a Wimpy Kid Old School by Jeff Kinney (Children’s Book)
Release Date: November 3, 2015

Life was better in the old days. Or was it?

That’s the question Greg Heffley is asking as his town voluntarily unplugs and goes electronics-free. But modern life has its conveniences, and Greg isn’t cut out for an old-fashioned world.

With tension building inside and outside the Heffley home, will Greg find a way to survive? Or is going “old school” just too hard for a kid like Greg?

January 2016

Two Friends: Susan B. Anthony and Frederick Douglass by Dean Robbins (Children’s Book)
Release Date: January 5, 2016

Two friends, Susan B. Anthony and Frederick Douglass, get together for tea and conversation. They recount their similar stories fighting to win rights for women and African Americans. The premise of this particular exchange between the two is based on a statue in their hometown of Rochester, New York, which shows the two friends having tea.

Is there anything more splendid than a baby’s skin? For families of all stripes comes a sweet celebration of what makes us unique—and what holds us together.

Just savor these bouquets of babies—cocoa-brown, cinnamon, peaches and cream. As they grow, their clever skin does too, enjoying hugs and tickles, protecting them inside and out, and making them one of a kind. Fran Manushkin’s rollicking text and Lauren Tobia’s delicious illustrations paint a breezy and irresistible picture of the human family—and how wonderful it is to be just who you are.

A Birthday Cake for George Washington by Ramin Ganeshram (Children’s Book)
Release Date: January 5, 2016 (Update: 1/18/2016 – Scholastic has pulled this book from publication.)

Everyone is buzzing about the president’s birthday! Especially George Washington’s servants, who scurry around the kitchen preparing to make this the best celebration ever. Oh, how George Washington loves his cake! And, oh, how he depends on Hercules, his head chef, to make it for him. Hercules, a slave, takes great pride in baking the president’s cake. But this year there is one problem–they are out of sugar.

Your turn:  Which books from this list are you most looking forward to?  Did I miss any upcoming books?  Feel free to let me know in the comments.

Books for Adults

What I’m Reading (in July 2015)

Summer is officially here and I couldn’t be happier.  I’m looking forward to days of warm weather, long, lazy afternoons and gentle breezes with lots of sunshine.

Welcome summer, I’m so happy you’re here.  Let the summer of reading commence!

Below are the three books I plan to read in July.

Status: Finished

 

This book has been on my list of books to read since it came out earlier this year.  I’m a huge fan of Issa Rae.  I used to watch The Misadventures of Awkward Black Girl web series on YouTube religiously in its early days.  I am excited to read her memoir and learn more about how she got her start especially now since she recently had the opportunity to meet my role model, Oprah.  I love to read about successful, empowered women.

 

Status:  Finished

 

When she discovered ballet, Misty was living in a shabby motel room, struggling with her five siblings for a place to sleep on the floor. A true prodigy, she was dancing en pointe within three months of taking her first dance class and performing professionally in just over a year: a feat unheard of for any classical dancer. But when Misty became caught between the control and comfort she found in the world of ballet and the harsh realities of her own life (culminating in a highly publicized custody battle), she had to choose to embrace both her identity and her dreams, and find the courage to be one of a kind.

Life in Motion is an insider’s look at the cutthroat world of professional ballet, as well as a moving story of passion and grace for anyone who has dared to dream of a different life.

Status:  Finished

Big Little Lies by Lane Moriarty
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Big Little Lies follows three women, each at a crossroads:

Madeline is a force to be reckoned with. She’s funny and biting, passionate, she remembers everything and forgives no one. Her ex-husband and his yogi new wife have moved into her beloved beachside community, and their daughter is in the same kindergarten class as Madeline’s youngest (how is this possible?). And to top it all off, Madeline’s teenage daughter seems to be choosing Madeline’s ex-husband over her. (How. Is. This. Possible?).

Celeste is the kind of beautiful woman who makes the world stop and stare. While she may seem a bit flustered at times, who wouldn’t be, with those rambunctious twin boys? Now that the boys are starting school, Celeste and her husband look set to become the king and queen of the school parent body. But royalty often comes at a price, and Celeste is grappling with how much more she is willing to pay.

New to town, single mom Jane is so young that another mother mistakes her for the nanny. Jane is sad beyond her years and harbors secret doubts about her son. But why? While Madeline and Celeste soon take Jane under their wing, none of them realizes how the arrival of Jane and her inscrutable little boy will affect them all.

Your turn:  What books do you have in your queue for the month of July?  Have you read any of these books already?  Feel free to let me know in the comments.
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