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What I’m Reading (in November 2015)

I noticed I haven’t written a post to update you all on the books I’m reading.  It’s not that I’ve forgotten to write the posts, instead you can find my current reads of the month listed over on the right hand side.  However, it dawned on me that many people read blogs and websites on their phones nowadays, therefore you won’t see the books listed if using a handheld device.

Usually I like to read at least 2-3 books per month, but for the month of November I’m only going to read one book.  I’ve heard so many amazing things about this book so I really want to sink my teeth into it and focus on it.  I’m sure many of you have already heard of it as it’s been receiving rave reviews all over the Internet and social media.

The book I’ve chosen is none other than Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear by Elizabeth Gilbert.  She’s the same author who wrote the book Eat, Pray, Love.  I never read that book, but I absolutely adore the movie!

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Synopsis (from Amazon)
Readers of all ages and walks of life have drawn inspiration and empowerment from Elizabeth Gilbert’s books for years. Now this beloved author digs deep into her own generative process to share her wisdom and unique perspective about creativity. With profound empathy and radiant generosity, she offers potent insights into the mysterious nature of inspiration. She asks us to embrace our curiosity and let go of needless suffering. She shows us how to tackle what we most love, and how to face down what we most fear. She discusses the attitudes, approaches, and habits we need in order to live our most creative lives. Balancing between soulful spirituality and cheerful pragmatism, Gilbert encourages us to uncover the “strange jewels” that are hidden within each of us. Whether we are looking to write a book, make art, find new ways to address challenges in our work,  embark on a dream long deferred, or simply infuse our everyday lives with more mindfulness and passion, Big Magic cracks open a world of wonder and joy.

After reading this book I also plan to write a review so stay tuned for that in the coming weeks.  If you’re so inclined, read this book next month on your own and join me!

P.S. I’m currently obsessed with this video of Marie Forleo and Elizabeth Gilbert discussing the book.  Check it out if you have about 45 minutes to spare.  So worth listening to!

Your turn:  Have you read this book yet or is it on your “to read” list?  Feel free to share in the comments.

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HELP…My Kids Won’t Sit Still During Story Time

Today I’ll be addressing a question sent in by a reader.  She wanted to know how she could get her children to sit and listen attentively during story time.  I’m sure some of you may be wondering the same thing too.  Or perhaps you’ve thought about it before in the past or read about it on other blogs or in books.

Rest assured that many parents and caregivers have experienced this before – myself included.  During the first few months of my daughter’s life before she learned to crawl and move around on her own, I was in story time heaven so to speak.  Meaning, I could read as many books to her as I wanted and she wouldn’t move.

Then, once she became more mobile, all hell broke loose!  I often found myself getting frustrated because she wouldn’t sit still and listen during story time anymore.  I nearly threw in the read aloud towel until I finally understood it’s perfectly normal for kids not to sit still…they should be moving.  In fact, they need to move.  It’s good for their developing bodies and brains.  Once I realized that I took a different approach to story time and it made all the difference.  Below are a few things to consider that have helped me.

1. Just keep on reading.
Even if you don’t think your kids are listening, just continue reading because chances are they are in fact listening.  Last night during story time the kids started out listening attentively as we all sat on the bed, but then daddy came into the room.  They started jumping on the bed and wanted to play with him.  I just kept on reading until I finished all of the remaining books.  Every now and then one of the kids would come over and listen for a minute or two and then go right back to playing and jumping.

One of the things I like to do to test if the kids are really listening is to make dramatic pauses every now and then between words or sentences.  This works especially well if it’s a book the kids are really familiar with and know word-for-word.  When I take a brief pause and stop reading 9 times out of 10 the kids will jump in right on cue with the next word or phrase.  That’s how I know they’re listening and paying attention.  Try it and see if it works for you.

2. Paraphrase when needed.
Let’s face it, sometimes you have those days when you just want to get through a book so you can go to bed or get on with something else you need to do (like finish a last-minute blog post).  On days like those paraphrasing is your best friend.  That means don’t be afraid to skip some words or sentences every now and then.  Or, if there is an interesting illustration on the page just talk about the picture.  For example, if you see a horse on the page say, “Look at the horse!  What sound does a horse make?  What is the horse doing?”  Then move on to the next page.  Don’t worry, you’re still building language and literacy skills.

3. Give them ownership over choosing which books to read.
Although my kids don’t currently select their own books from the store or the library, I do allow them to pick which books we’ll read at story time.  That automatically gives them a sense of ownership like they’re in control.  It also increases their chances of actually wanting to sit and listen to the book as it’s being read.

4. Don’t force your kids to sit still.
In our adult minds, we expect kids to sit down like perfect little angels and pay attention during circle time and story time.  Especially if we’re out in public at a play group or library story time event.  Remember when I said kids need to move?  Yes, it’s true.  So don’t be that mom constantly chasing after your kids if they don’t want to sit down and conform to your agenda or the agenda at hand.  If they want to explore the environment or play quietly then I say let them.  They’re still benefiting from hearing the words being read aloud.  Now if they’re acting out, having a tantrum or being disruptive to others then stop reading until they’ve calmed down (if you’re reading at home).  If you’re out in public, it may be best to go out into the hall or restroom until they’re settled.

Bottom line is don’t expect your toddlers or preschoolers to sit still for an entire 30-minute read aloud session.  Yes, even if you’re out in public and all the other kids are sitting down quietly in a cross-legged position with their hands on their laps.  Don’t beat yourself over it.

5. Read during mealtimes or bath time.
Sometimes I read to the kids during dinnertime (now that they can both feed themselves) or at bath time.  Since they are either strapped into their high chairs or sitting in the tub there is no where else for them to go.  They have no choice but to sit (or stand in the tub) and listen.

6. Keep their hands occupied.
This is one of the best tips I learned from reading books and listening to podcasts.  Keeping their hands busy during story time works wonders.  You can give kids things like paper and crayons, Playdoh, yarn, blocks, Legos, pom poms, or anything that will keep their little hands occupied while you read.

7. Ask your children questions as you read.
Whether they are jumping around you or fidgeting on your lap, point to pages of the book and ask questions. For older children ask questions about the plot or characters.  For smaller ones you can ask what they think will happen next, what color something is, what sound an animal makes or whats their favorite part of the page.

8. Listen to books online or try audio books.
This is one area we haven’t had too much experience in, but I’ve heard listening to books online and audio books are rather effective.  These could be great alternatives on days when you just don’t feel like reading or have too much on your plate, but don’t want to skip your read aloud session with the kids.

Don’t let your read aloud sessions become cumbersome and frustrating.  Even if your little ones act disinterested that doesn’t mean they won’t eventually become interested.  Just keep pushing through even when you feel like quitting.  And don’t worry if you get off to a rocky start with your reading time.  Keep going and work together with your children to introduce them to the joys of reading.  Most of all remember to have fun! Be silly and enjoy this time of exploring the world with your children through books.

P.S. If you have a question related to reading or literacy feel free to contact me.  I love hearing from people who read this blog!  I’m no self-proclaimed literacy or reading expert, but I will do my best to answer any questions asked.

Your turn:  Help our reader friend who submitted this question out.  Do your kids sit still during story time?  What additional tips would you let her know?  Feel free to share in the comments.

Book Reviews

Poems for the Smart, Spunky, and Sensational Black Girl: A Book Review

One night while browsing on Instagram, I spotted the book Poems for the Smart, Spunky, and Sensational Black Girl and my daughter happened to be sitting next to me.  She saw the picture and said, “Mommy, what’s that?”  When I told her it was a book she said, “I want to read it.”  I had already made up my mind I was going to purchase it as soon as it came out because it looked amazing, but my daughter re-affirmed it for me.

I love reading stories with my daughter that she can relate to (and my son too).  That means stories about kids—or, more specifically, stories where girls take the lead.  (Yay, girlpower!)  And the spunkier the heroine, the better.  That’s why Rachel Garlinghouse’s latest book is the perfect choice for my smart, spunky, and sensational little Black girl.

Poems for the Smart, Spunky, and Sensational Black Girl
by Rachel Garlinghouse, illustrated by Sharee Miller 
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Synopsis
Today’s girl has a lot going on! From beads, bullies, and birthdays, to school, sunglasses, and siblings, Poems for the Smart, Spunky, and Sensational Black Girl resonates and inspires! From Rachel Garlinghouse (author and mom) and Sharee Miller (owner of Coily and Cute) comes this one-of-a-kind poetry collection that will certainly bring a smile to your little lady’s face and heart.

Reflection
The first day this book arrived in the mail I read it on my own before reading it to the kids.  When I read it to the kids I read half of the poems in the afternoon before nap time, then read the other half later that night at bed time.  They both listened and were attentive and engaged throughout each reading session.  There are a total of 23 short poems contained in this book so I think breaking it up and reading a few at a time may work best, especially if you have little ones who tend to get fidgety.  Older kids should have no problems reading this book in one sitting though.

One of the poems is entitled The Things I Like.  I adore this poem because people are so quick to ‘box your children in’ these days.  Meaning, they try to label your child as shy, aggressive, tomboys, or a girlie girls.  I think you should allow your kids to be exactly who God created them to be whether that be a beauty queen or a brainiac, an athlete or a quirky, creative type, or a lovely mixture of all of the above.  This poem does a great job of expressing that through the text as well as the illustration.

There is also a short thought-provoking poem called What If.  It’s a series of questions like, ‘What if Oprah Winfrey never would have spoken?’  ‘What if Rosa Parks never would have refused?’  Not only did this poem cause me to reflect on all of these wonderful women, but it also inspired me to leave behind my own legacy to make people ponder their own ‘what if’ question about me.  Hopefully, this poem will resonate with my daughter throughout the years as she gets older.

Another favorite poem called Between Mama’s Knees is simply beautiful.  It’s about a little girl sitting between her mama’s knees to get her hair done.  Something I remember all to well as a child.  The last line in that poem is “Between mamas’ knees beauty is born.”  How perfect is that?

The illustrations in this book are so bright, vibrant, and beautiful!  I love the representation of girls, boys, men, and women of different races featured throughout.  Oh, and because I am also a natural hair enthusiast, I must mention the hairstyles are adorable!  You’ll see little girls rocking afro puffs, beads, ponytails, braids, and twist outs.

It’s also worth mentioning this is a paperback book.  Therefore, if you have little ones who are still in the phase of putting everything in their mouths keep this in mind as the pages may rip easily.  The glossy cover of the book seems more durable than the actual pages.

The childish viewpoints in the poems feel bright, unforced, and happily spontaneous.   There are short and funny selections mixed with slightly longer, more thoughtful verse.  Some of the poems may even help to build up a girl’s self-esteem so she can walk and breathe with pride accepting herself for who she is.  This book may also inspire girls to start writing some poetry of their own.

Overall, I think this is an excellent book to add to a girls’ book collection!  Especially if she’s a smart, spunky, and sensational Black girl.

Disclaimer:  I purchased this book with my own money and was not compensated to write this review.  All opinions and views expressed are my own.

Your turn:  Did you enjoy this post?  Are you looking forward to reading it with your little ones?  Feel free to share in the comments.

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Read it and Weep: 3 Tear-Jerking Picture Books

One thing I’ve learned on my read aloud journey with the kids is to never underestimate the effect a children’s picture books can have on me.  I firmly believe children’s books teach some very valuable life lessons for both children and adults.  I think picture books are made for two different audiences – the prime audience, young children, but also the adult who shares it with them.  In order for picture books (and board books) to be effective, they have to work for both the adult and the child.

On my most recent library haul for the kids, I picked up three amazing picture books that inspired me to write this blog post.  All three of these books moved me so deeply, so I had to share.

This is not something I am proud of, but sometimes while reading a bedtime story with my kids, I find myself choking back the tears. Has that ever happened to you?  I find this happens even more now since I’ve become a parent.

You can find the most recent culprits that either made me cry or choked me up listed below.  I think all of these books are so beautifully told and illustrated.  When I read them aloud or even silently on my own they move me deeply, every time.  So grab a box of tissues, curl up (with or without your kids) and enjoy this brief selection of three recent children’s books that made me cry.

Wish by Matthew Cordell
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This book didn’t just choke me up, but it actually made me cry.  I think is the perfect book to give to an expectant mom.  Especially if you want to see her do the “ugly cry” if she’s finally pregnant after months/years of trying to conceive.  It’s about two elephants who wanted to start a family together, and then one day they get their wish.

Bluebird by Bob Staake
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This is one of the best wordless books I’ve seen this year.  A boy and a bluebird become friends, but then tragedy strikes.  Don’t worry, it ends on a high note.  This one may be a bit heavy for really small children as it does deal with death and loss.  I’d recommend it for children ages 4 – 9 (although I did show it to my children).

You’re Here For a Reason by Nancy Tillman
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I love Nancy Tillman’s books!  Every one that I’ve read is amazing and very touching.  This book is certainly no exception and makes a great bedtime story.  So nice to be able to tell your kids how much you love them and appreciate them at the end of each day.  Also, a great reminder to let them know they’re here for a reason.

Your turn:  Anyone want to own up to crying at a picture book? Any recommendations for the tear-jerker list? Or just ones that move you deeply?  I’d love to read a few more.

Book Reviews

Monster Trouble: A Book Review

Monster Trouble by Lane Fredrickson
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Synopsis
Nothing frightens Winifred Schnitzel—but she DOES need her sleep, and the neighborhood monsters WON’T let her be! Every night they sneak in, growling and belching and making a ruckus. Winifred constructs clever traps, but nothing stops these crafty creatures. What’s a girl to do?

Reflection
Both of my kids really enjoyed this book – it was a big hit last month and this month.  Little Winifred Schnitzel is too cute with her two afro puff ponytails!  Oh, and she’s very brave too.

In this book, she tries several different tactics to keep monsters at bay so she can get some much needed beauty sleep.  Winifred sets traps using string, she uses some stinky Limburger cheese, and even a pokey chair.  Unfortunaley, she is unsuccessful at trying to trap or trick the monsters and she eventually falls into a deep sleep.  When she is awakened by one of the monsters, she kisses him.  Well, the monster is totally disgusted by the kiss and he starts freaking out.  Wise little Winifred takes notice of how grossed out the monster is, so she starts kissing all of them and they finally leave her alone at night to sleep.  So if you’ve ever wondered how to get monsters to leave you alone now you know the secret…kiss them!

I think this is a great book for children who are afraid of the dark when the lights go out at night.  It can also be used to teach kids how to deal with their fears and being strong and brave.  I would recommend this book for children ages 3 – 8 (even though I read it with my little guy who’s almost two years old).

Parents, caregivers, and teachers don’t have to worry about scary or spooky looking monster illustrations in this book. The pictures are colorful and entertaining. The story is written in a fun rhyming way that’s perfect for story telling and keeping little readers and listeners captivated.  A great Halloween read aloud book for both girls and boys!

Looking for more Halloween-themed books for kids?  Check out one of my previous posts here.

Your Turn:  Did you enjoy this book review?  Have you read this book yet?  If so, feel free to let me know if you and your little ones enjoyed it.

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Boscov’s Grand Opening Plus an Instagram Giveaway!

There’s a new “kid’ on the block in my neck of the woods in Connecticut.  Boscov’s department store opened its doors to the general public last Thursday, October 8th.

I had the privilege of attending the grand opening of their 44th store with a few other fellow bloggers who were also invited.  This was my very first blogger event so I was super excited to be there and have the opportunity to connect with other local bloggers, see the store, and get a glimpse of what other bloggers experience at these types of events.  Thanks again, Boscov’s for the invite!

Ok, now on to the good stuff…

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If you have never been to a Boscov’s department store, let me tell you 5 reasons why you should totally consider going:

1. They sell books!
Of course, I had to mention books first, right?  Now, before you get your hopes up let me warn you they don’t have a large selection of books available, at least not yet anyway.  However, if you’re a Dr. Seuss fan, they have a nice variety of those types of books.  I also saw some books that would make nice baby shower gifts like the 1940’s classic book Pat the Bunny (one of the best-selling children’s books of all time) which was packaged nicely in a clear box ready for gift-giving.

2. They provide FREE gift wrapping throughout the entire year!
How many times have you gone to a store to buy a gift, and then turn around and go to another store to purchase either a gift bag, wrapping paper or tissue paper?  Too many times, right?  One of the great things about Boscov’s is they offer this service to their customers FREE of charge throughout the entire year, not just during the holidays.  You can take your purchase directly to the gift wrapping counter to have them wrapped and receive quality customer service with a smile.

3. They have activities for children!
One of the many things that makes Boscov’s unique is their commitment to serving local communities.  They have a long history of charitable programs and activities for children and adults. Throughout the year, Boscov’s holds fundraising and awareness events for local community non-profit organizations in their community auditorium.  Some of their events may include: famous entertainers, fashion shows, face painters, balloon artists, and health and wellness classes.

4. They have a candy department in the store!
At Boscov’s they make their own fudge and its served fresh everyday.  They also have a great selection of chocolates, candy and other sweet treats.

5. They have an exceptional bargain section!
I don’t ever recall seeing a bargain section in a department store that actually has good, quality items.  I scored some really great deals in the bargain section like a 2 quart tea kettle for only $2.99!  Most of the items I saw started as low as $1.00 and went up to $9.99 or more.  Get a head start on purchasing your stocking stuffers now!

In addition to all of the wonderful things I’ve mentioned above, Boscov’s also sells everything you’d find in any other department store like: brand-name merchandise including apparel, shoes and accessories for men, women and children, home furnishings, toys, cosmetics, and small appliances.

If you’re one of my local subscribers who lives in Connecticut, I highly recommend stopping by to check out Boscov’s at the Westfield Meriden Mall!  Right now until October 17th they’re having a mega grand opening sale with blockbuster deals.  Plus, there are activities for children and you can register to win some fantastic prizes.  Also, Academy Award Winner Shirley Jones and her son Patrick Cassidy are performing alone or together in the community auditorium.

Other Upcoming Events

FASHION WEEK IN OCTOBER!
Sunday October 25 – Friday October 30
Come out to watch a fashion show with your family and friends!

HALLOWEEN EXTRAVAGANZA
October 31, 2015
Boscov’s invites you and your family to join us for a day of Free Halloween Fun, make and take crafts, costumes parade, games and more!

Boscov’s currently has locations in: Pennsylvania, New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, Maryland, Deleware, and Ohio.  Not in one of those states?  Don’t worry, you can take advantage of their great deals by shopping online at boscovs.com

Disclaimer: I was invited to attend this event by Boscov’s public relations and marketing team, however all views and opinions expressed are our own.

Your turn:  Have you ever shopped at Boscov’s before?  Feel free to share in the comments.

My First Instagram Giveaway!
In celebration of the grand opening of the new Boscov’s department store, I’m giving away a selfie stick I purchased from there this past weekend.

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To enter, go to my Instagram page (@hereweeread), find the picture of the selfie stick, and then tag a book loving friend in the comments below the picture. I’ll select a random winner this Thursday morning (10/15) at 6am Eastern time. Sorry, only open to US residents. Prize will ship by the end of this week.  Good luck!

10/16/2015 Update: This giveaway has ended.  The random winner chosen was Instagram user @usbornestagram.  Congratulations!

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What’s Your Book Fate? Plus A Giveaway!

Lisa Papademetriou, author of the newly released novel A Tale of Highly Unusual Magic wants to know:

What is your book fate—what book has changed your perspective, your heart, your life?

If you participate by posting a comment on this blog post, I will randomly select 1 winner to receive a copy of the book for FREE!  Giveaway ends October 24, 2015.  Good luck!  Below is a synopsis of the book.

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ABOUT A TALE OF HIGHLY UNUSUAL MAGIC:

Kai and Leila are both finally having an adventure. For Leila, that means a globe-crossing journey to visit family in Pakistan for the summer; for Kai, it means being stuck with her crazy great-aunt in Texas while her mom looks for a job. In each of their bedrooms, they discover a copy of a blank, old book called The Exquisite Corpse. Kai writes three words on the first page—and suddenly, they magically appear in Leila’s copy on the other side of the planet. Kai’s words are soon followed by line after line of the long-ago, romantic tale of Ralph T. Flabbergast and his forever-love, Edwina Pickle. As the two take turns writing, the tale unfolds, connecting both girls to each other, and to the past, in a way they never could have imagined.

A heartfelt, vividly told multicultural story about fate and how our stories shape it.

PRAISE FOR A TALE OF HIGHLY UNUSUAL MAGIC:
“Magic! It’s everywhere—in music, in moths, in an old handwritten book. But the real magic is the exquisite storytelling that sweeps us along until the last wonderful page. This is a book that leaves shimmers in the very air.” — Kathi Appelt, New York Times bestselling author of The Underneath and Keeper

“Lisa Papademetriou’s prose and sense of place dazzles the ear and eye, while the adventure and mystery binds us from page to page. Now that’s sleight of hand!” — Rita Williams-Garcia, Newbery Honor Winner

“A beguiling tale of… enduring love and nascent self-discovery.” — Kirkus Reviews

“A rollicking adventure of forbidden love and magic”  –School Library Journal

“Begging to be read aloud… a fun book for middle-grade readers, and it will surely inspire them to read—and write—more.” –Booklist

ABOUT LISA PAPADEMETRIOU:
New York Times bestselling author Lisa Papademetriou is the author of Middle School: Big, Fat Liar and Homeroom Diaries (both with James Patterson), the Confectionately Yours series, and many other novels for middle grade and young adult readers. Her books have appeared on the Bank Street Best Books of the Year list, the NYPL Books for the Teen Age, and the Texas Lone Star Reading List, among others. A former editor, Lisa has worked for Scholastic, HarperCollins, and Disney Press and is the founder of the humorous online grammar magazine, IvanaCorrectya.com. You can visit Lisa at: http://lisapapa.com

The Giveaway
Enter to win a FREE copy of bestselling author Lisa Papademetriou’s latest book A Tale of Highly Unusual Magic.

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Book Cover Reveals

Holly Schindler’s Spark: A Book Cover Reveal

Today, I’m participating in my very first book cover reveal!  If you’re a fan of YA (Young Adult) novels, you’ll want to be sure to check out Holly Schindler’s upcoming book Spark, premiering May 17, 2016.  This is the first time anyone will be seeing the cover and jacket copy–it’s not live anywhere yet (Amazon, Goodreads, etc.)  The links to pre-order are listed below.  Enjoy!

Holly Schindler’s Spark:

When the right hearts come to the Avery Theater—at the right time—the magic will return. The Avery will come back from the dead.

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Or so Quin’s great-grandmother predicted many years ago on Verona, Missouri’s most tragic night, when Nick and Emma, two star-crossed teenage lovers, died on the stage. It was the night that the Avery’s marquee lights went out forever.

It sounds like urban legend, but one that high school senior Quin is now starting to believe, especially when her best friend, Cass, and their classmate Dylan step onto the stage and sparks fly. It seems that magic can still unfold at the old Avery Theater and a happier ending can still be had—one that will align the stars and revive not only the decrepit theater, but also the decaying town. However, it hinges on one thing—that Quin gets the story right this time around.

Holly Schindler brings the magic of the theater to life in this tale of family ties, fate, love, and one girl’s quest to rewrite history.

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“In my hometown, the restoration of a former movie theater on the town square provided the genesis for my new YA novel, SPARK. Who among us hasn’t dreamed of seeing their name in blazing neon across a gigantic marquee? Let me invite you to dim the lights and draw back the velvet curtains—let your imagination run wild as you enter my fictional Avery Theater, where literally anything goes…”

—Holly Schindler

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Holly Schindler is the author of three previous YA novels: PLAYING HURT as well as the critically acclaimed FERAL (starred PW review) and A BLUE SO DARK (starred Booklist review, ForeWord Book of the Year silver medal, IPPY gold medal). A writer of books for all ages, Schindler’s MG, THE JUNCTION OF SUNSHINE AND LUCKY, has made the master list for children’s book awards in Illinois, South Carolina, and Alabama. She is also a hybrid author, having independently released comedic women’s fiction (FIFTH AVENUE FIDOS) and the forthcoming PLAY IT AGAIN, her adult follow-up to her YA PLAYING HURT. She can be reached through her author site: hollyschindler.com, and hosts special sneak peeks and giveaways for subscribers of her newsletter: tinyletter.com/hollyschindler.com.

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Spark “Premieres” May 17, 2016, but you can buy your “tickets” now.

Links to pre-order:
Amazon
Barnes &Noble
IndieBound
Add to your TBR list on Goodreads

Your turn:  What do you think of the book cover design?  Have you read any of Holly’s previous novels?  Are you looking forward to the release of Spark?  Feel free to share in the comments.

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What the Kids are Reading (for Halloween)

Since becoming a parent I’ve come to realize that having kids makes all of the holidays more fun, especially Halloween!

All month long the kids and I will be reading several Halloween-themed books.  I want the kids to be familiar with some of the scarier aspects of Halloween including ghosts, witches, vampires, and goblins before the holiday rolls around.  Granted, they still might be frightened if they see some of the older kids dressed up in scary costumes, but I’m hoping over time they’ll learn to understand it’s just for fun.

Below is a list of all the “not-too-scary” Halloween books we’re reading this month.  I think they’re all infant and toddler friendly for young trick-or-treaters.  Enjoy!

Board Books

Ghost in the House (A Lift the Flap Book) by Ammi-Joan Paquette

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Slip-sliding his way through a haunted house, a little ghost is joined by a shuffling mummy, a happy little monster, and other ghoulish friends before discovering the scariest creature in the house. (There is also a picture book version of this book available without the flaps.)

Where is Baby’s Pumpkin? (A Lift the Flap Book) by Karen Katz

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Little readers can help baby find her pumpkin by lifting the flaps on each page. Look under the bed, behind the leaves, behind the curtain, and more! Will baby find her pumpkin in time to go trick-or-treating?

Hush, Little Monster by Denis Markell
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A monster father softly sings his own version of a favorite lullaby, Hush Little Baby to his son. A screeching owl, a vampire, an ogre, and zombies are just a few of the creatures who will come to soothe Little Monster through the night.

Jack and Jill: A Halloween Nursery Rhyme by Salina Yoon
jackandjillhalloweenThe nursery rhyme may be familiar—but everything changes when “Jack” and “Jill” are jack-o’-lanterns! Salina Yoon takes a classic tale and gives it a fresh spin, brightly and boldly adorning the pages of this chunky board book with cheerfully grinning pumpkins.

The Itsy Bitsy Pumpkin by Sonali Fry

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In a variation of the nursery rhyme “The Itsy Bitsy Spider,” a jack-o-lantern encounters a goblin and a witch while trying to roll back to his family on Halloween.

Popcorn by Frank Asch
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Sam’s Halloween party is popping — with a massive amount of popcorn! Find out how he and his friends handle the delicious surplus in this reissue of a classic picture book originally written in 1979.

10 Trick-or-Treaters: A Halloween Counting Book by Janet Schulman

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Ten trick-or-treaters start out on Halloween night, but they disappear one-by-one as they encounter a spider, a vampire, a ghost, and other scary creatures.

Picture Books

Monster Trouble by Lane Fredrickson
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In this adorable book, little Winifred used to be afraid of monsters until she found out their secret.  The delightfully sweet ending will have every kid—and little monster—begging for an encore.

Little Boo by Stephen Wunderli
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The leaves fall, the wind blows, and one little pumpkin seed tries and tries to be scary. But he doesn’t scare anyone…not the snowflakes in winter, not the bees in spring, not even the watering can!

The wind tells him to be patient—he’ll be scary soon enough. But waiting is hard. Will the little seed ever be really, truly scary? This simple story is more than a fun Halloween read—it is a heartwarming tale perfect for any child who can’t wait to grow up.

Leo: A Ghost Story by Mac Barnett
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This isn’t actually a Halloween story, but since it’s a ghost story I included it anyway.  Plus, it’s such a great book!
Meet Leo, a ghost who lives in a house all alone reading books and drawing pictures in the dust. One day a new family moves into Leo’s house. Leo tries to welcome his new family by being a gracious host, but ends up scaring them in the process. Leo decides to move out and go roam the city in search of a new home.

The Bake Shop Ghost by Jacqueline K. Ogburn

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Miss Cora Lee Merriweather haunts her bake shop after her death, until the new shop owner makes a deal with her. A delightful story about friendship with a great message.

Skeleton Hiccups by Margery Cuyler
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This is a goofy story about a skeleton who has the hiccups! He tries many remedies to get rid of them and at the end when he looks in the mirror and scares himself, it is only then that his hiccups are gone!  Great for kids ages 2 – 7.

Room on the Broom by Julia Donaldson
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This is one of my favorite Halloween books! A witch finds room on her broom for all the animals that ask for a ride, and they repay her kindness by rescuing her from a dragon.

AlphaOops! H is for Halloween by Alethea Kontis
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We read the original AlphaOops! book so I was thrilled to come across this Halloween-themed one! While putting on a Halloween pageant, the alphabet mixes things up with some spooky, and funny, results.

Halloween Hustle by Charlotte Gunnufson
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Skeleton is dancing his way to a Halloween party, but as he grooves across town, he keeps stumbling, tumbling, and falling apart. But somehow he always manages to put himself back together – even using tape and rubber bands when necessary!

Shivery Shades of Halloween: A Spooky Book of Colors by Mary McKenna Siddals
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Children will learn their colors as they follow a cute little creature on his adventure through haunted halls, moonlit forests . . . perhaps even a Halloween party!

The Night Before Halloween by Natasha Wing
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A story in the style of the familiar poem, “The Night Before Christmas,” tells how a housefull of monsters, goblins, witches and the like prepare for Halloween. The monsters in this story are illustrated as friendly and cheerful creatures rather than as scary or spooky monsters, making this book appropriate for even very young children who might otherwise be easily frightened.

Your turn:  What Halloween-themed books are in your stack?  Feel free to share in the comments.

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Seven Ways to Encourage Your Child to Love Reading & A Giveaway!

Hello, October!

Since the fall season is upon us, I thought it would be a good time to discuss a few simple ways to help your children fall in love with reading and books if they haven’t already.  Even if your little ones are already avid readers or seem to love books there are still some things you may want to consider doing to enhance your children’s reading and read aloud experiences.

With so much technology and social media available today, how do you get your children to choose reading books over watching television, sitting in front of the computer, playing on the iPad, or texting their friends?

Below are a few ideas that may help.  Read on.

1. Make your children a part of the story
Children love looking at pictures of other babies and children in books, especially when it’s their own pictures.    One way to make your child a part of the story is to create personalized books through online websites like storieChild.

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I found out about storieChild a few weeks ago while surfing the web.  storieChild offers one-of-a-kind story books and baby books for children ages 0-8+.   They pair technology with creative arts while guiding you through the process of creating an amazing story for your child.  Their products are designed by artists and storytellers and are available exclusively through pre-sale on their website.

Creating your own story book with storieChild is super simple.  Say goodbye to those complicated websites that are way too time consuming and nearly impossible to figure out.  With storieChild not only do you get a beautiful, personalized book with your child/children as the star, but you also get an actual story to go along with it.  Oh, and did I mention the entire process only takes about 10 – 25 minutes?

If you’re as excited about storieChild as I am, YOU can get in on the fun too!  That’s right, you can win your very own softcover customized storieChild book for FREE (pick any story of your choice)!  All of the details are listed at the end of this post, but read on for more tips.

2. Bring them new books every day
No, I’m not talking about going out and purchasing a new book each day for your child.  I mean show them at least 1 book every day either from your home library collection or your local library.  For example, every Monday (or sometimes on Saturday) I do a library haul.  I pick out through a stack of children’s books, read them, and bring my favorites back to the kids.  Then each day during the week I read the kids different books or sometimes we’ll read old favorites that we already have.

The idea is that if you are trying to sell kids on books you should bring them books day after day.  These books should be ones that you think are: exciting, funny, poignant, adventurous, beautiful, interesting, or mysterious.  Bring your children books that support their current interests, make them wonder, stretch their imaginations, light them up with amazement, laugh, feel empathy, and connect with their own lives.  Sometimes you can bring them new books that are hot off the press, and old favorites from your childhood.  You get the idea.

3. Let them choose what they want to read, even “twaddle” (occasionally)
If you don’t know what “twaddle” is, it’s basically literature that has been dumbed-down and doesn’t add any value.  I don’t currently let my children choose their own books unless it’s an alphabet book.  However, I know as they get older they’ll want to start choosing what they read and I’m ok with that as long as it’s not all the time.

As the kids age, I’ll have to learn to back off and let them read what catches their eye and ignites their imagination as they build their relationship with reading. If it is twaddle books, I’ll have to assure myself it is okay if they start with worthless ones.

While I still have control over choosing their books, I’ll continue to guide them into the amazing ones until they start telling me to “back off”.  So if all your child wants to read is comic books then let them and be grateful they are reading something.

4. Practice storytelling with story cards
A few months ago, I wrote a post about a simple way to improve your storytelling skills by using eBoo story cards.  You can read more about the story cards here.  The kids and I still use our story cards every once in a while and I can honestly say I’ve seen progression since we first started using them, especially with my 3 year-old.  And for the price I paid (under $10.00 per pack) it was worth it.

5. Explore different libraries in different cities, states or countries
I’ve taken the kids to several libraries throughout Connecticut where we live and even to a couple in a different state.  We attend story time events as well as other programs and activities all for FREE.  I believe just by exposing kids to libraries helps them develop a love of reading and books in general.  Also, when we go to story time events they have the benefit of hearing someone else read to them and learn to sit attentively and listen with a group of children in a different environment.  A win-win.

6. Entice children and make them curious about books
I’ve noticed whenever I start clutching a children’s book I just read myself and start saying things like, “I love this new book…it’s so good!” the kids are instantly intrigued and want to know what the book is.  Try it next time and see if you are nearly stampeded by your kids dying to read it next.

7. Read your own books/magazines in front of your children
I’m sure you’ve read this tip before numerous times, but in order to build a culture of literacy in your home it’s important for your children to see you reading often.  Telling them, “Reading is important!” is pointless, if you never sit down in front of them and eagerly dive into your own reading material. If all they see is you collapsing in front of the TV or constantly sneaking off to your computer or checking your phone when you are tired or bored, they will learn that this is how one spends the invaluable minutes of one’s life.  Remember, YOUR attitude toward books and reading will likely be your child’s attitude as well.  Be a good role model to your kids.

I believe the only true gateway into the world of reading, is by motivating kids to want to read something – anything.  When they start to realize the wonder of books, the places they can go, the people they can meet, and the things they can learn through books, I think only then can you start to stand a real chance at helping them become successful and lifelong readers.

Don’t worry if your child isn’t “there” yet, meaning they don’t have a real interest in books or reading…it’s ok…I understand!  As the parent it’s important to keep trying and remain excited.  Make reading a priority in your own life and your kids will likely follow suit.  Every child is different, but I believe you can encourage every child to like books once you find what appeals to them.

Your turn: How do you encourage your children to love reading and books?  Feel free to share in the comments.

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What you’ll receive: 1 softcover customized storieChild book of your choice (Sorry, this giveaway is only open to US residents who are 18 and over.)

Deadline: Enter by October 17, 2015 for your chance to win.  Good luck!

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4 Recent Picture Book Read Alouds My Kids Loved

The kids and I read so many books during any given month, sometimes it’s hard to keep up with all the titles.  There are just so many fantastic children’s books available today and I want to read them all!  Can you relate?

Below are 4 recent read aloud books my kids really enjoyed.  We’ve read these over and over again so they definitely had to be added to our list of 2015 favorites.

Have you read any of these 4 amazing books yet?

Waiting by Kevin Henkes
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Delayed gratification, also known as waiting, isn’t an easy concept for small children to grasp. This book teaches the concept so eloquently in a simple way that’s easy for kids to understand. Some people wait for things to happen while others live their lives not waiting for anything in particular. What are you waiting for? A great read with a powerful message for both adults and children.  I LOVE THIS BOOK!

The Smallest Girl in the Smallest Grade by Justin Roberts

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Hardly anyone noticed young Sally McCabe. She was the smallest girl in the smallest grade. But Sally notices everything-from the twenty-seven keys on the janitor’s ring to the bullying happening on the playground. One day Sally has had enough and decides to take a stand.

Cloudette by Tom Lichenheld
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In this adorable book, a little cloud named Cloudette learns there are advantages to being small. Although she craves to be big and important in the beginning like all the other clouds, Cloudette soon discovers that little clouds can also make a big difference.

Bike On, Bear! by Cynthea Liu
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The kids enjoyed this book so much it was read six times in a row…five times by me and then once by daddy. It’s a delightful book about a bear learning to ride his bike. His wise mom tells him to go to the library because you can learn anything there. Sure enough, bear finds a book called Learn to Ride A Bike in 4 Days. The ending of this book is great and possibly opens the door to another book starring this adorable bear character. Such a fun read!

Your turn:  What are some picture books you and your children have enjoyed together recently?  Feel free to share in the comments.

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5 Board Books Babies & Toddlers Will Love!

During this week’s library haul I scored some fantastic brand-new board books that I think infants and toddlers will love!  Ok, I must admit, I think I love them more than my kids, but they really do seem to enjoy these books too – especially my 21-month old son.  If you follow us on Instagram, you may have already seen three of these books on our page.

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All of these books are durable and high-quality.  Oh, and did I mention I think they are gorgeous and so creative?  Did I pique your interest yet?  Read on.

A B See by Elizabeth Doyle
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My kids adore alphabet books especially this beautiful gem by Elizabeth Doyle.  Each page contains detailed illustrations and is chock-full of interesting alphabetic tidbits.  This book is also a seek-and-find with alliterative text that reads like poetry.  Each of the letters are raised making it fun for kids to trace them with their fingers similar to sand paper letters used in Montessori education.  There is also a key provided at the back of the book which contains all of the words that match each tiny picture hidden throughout.

I Can Roar! by Frank Asch
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We had so much fun with this adorable, engaging book!  It’s a tall board book has a circular die-cut hole, perfect for toddlers to hold up and stick their tiny faces through. The pages feature Asch’s simply outlined animal shapes and declarative sentences, such as “I can squeak like a mouse” and “I can quack like a duck.” Sure to be great fun for young children.

LOOK! by Edouard Manceau
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Here is another oversize board book with a rectangular die-cut in the middle of the book.  Children are asked a series of questions like: Do you see anything red, orange, blue or green?  Things that are near and things that are far?  The book gets more creative as you move through it, with a velcro page that invites readers to look for things in their own world that make noise, a shiny page, and even one covered in orange velvet that is soft to the touch.  Brilliant!

Jane Foster’s ABC by Jane Foster
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I think this alphabet book is so visually appealing!  The illustrations are so bright, vibrant and downright eye-catching!  It’s no surprise the illustrator of this book is also a textile designer.  Babies and toddlers will be drawn to all the beautiful colors.

Jane Foster’s 123 by Jane Foster
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Here is another gorgeous board book that little ones are sure to love!  My only issue with this book is that it only has the numbers 1 to 10.  I wish it went at least up to number twenty.  Still a great book though for little ones who love board books.

There you have it!  These books are great to read aloud to young readers and will make great baby shower, birthday or new baby gifts.

Your turn: Did you enjoy this list of new board books?  What others might you add to this list?  Feel free to share in the comments.

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