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Me Before You: A Book Review

I had no expectations going into this book other than Myleik Teele, an amazing role model I’m currently swooning over, said it was excellent.  I trust her book recommendations, but I like to read books and then form my own opinions about them.  If I had to give this book a rating based on a 1 – 5 scale, I’d rate it a 4 1/2.

Like I said, I did not know what to expect when I opened this book, but I was completely and totally riveted from the first word. I could not put it down, it was compelling and I wanted to know what was going to happen next.

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Twenty-six-year-old Louisa Clark is a simple girl, living a lackluster life at home with her parents, in the shadow of her small town’s castle and not minding at all. Thirty-five-year-old Will Traynor is a successful businessman who lives life to the fullest, including traveling the world and engaging in extreme sports activities.

When we meet Will, he is suddenly and tragically hit by a speeding motorcycle, rendering him a quadriplegic — and a very unhappy one at that. Meanwhile, Louisa loses her job at The Buttered Bun cafe, a simple and sweet job that made her happy. But since neither of Louisa’s parents are employed and her sister intends to go back to university, it is incumbent upon Louisa to find a job — and fast. She is told about a well-paying position as a caregiver. That’s when she meets the surly and unapproachable Will, who clearly has no need for Louisa in his life.

But, Louisa reacts to him in ways that no one else in Will’s circle does: with a jaunty sense of humor mixed with a good dose of sarcasm. Oddly enough, he begins to find her engaging, with her nutty way of dressing, her caustic sense of humor and her growing love for him. As the relationship grows between the two, Louisa takes it upon herself to show Will that, even though he’s a quadriplegic, there is a reason to keep on living.

Louisa and Will changed each other in so many ways in such a short period of time. Louisa gave Will happiness that he hadn’t experienced for a long time and Will gave Louisa the determination to do something with her life and not let it go to waste.  I loved the way the author depicted these two souls — Louisa and Will, each damaged in their own way — and how they came to fall in love.

What happens in this six-month time period is the heart of this story. It is about two families and how they deal with what life has dealt them. It is about choices and being allowed to choose. It is about awakening and discovering life and all there is to take from it and not be afraid to really love and live.  It isn’t until about halfway through the book when you realize the ending of this book will end in only one of two ways.

I should also tell you this book is written by a British author.  The story is set in modern-day England.  Therefore, there are some British slang and references to things and places that had me Googling a few times.  For example, the words ‘bloke’ and ‘loo’.  You could make out the meaning of some of the words via the context clues though.  It’s really not a big deal and I didn’t find it bothersome.

The one criticism I have of this book and the reason why I didn’t give it 5 stars because I thought there should have been a few chapters where Will was the narrator.   Louisa is the narrator for the majority of the book and then four other supporting characters take over the narrative for one chapter’s length at various times. I really wanted to get Will’s perspective and be inside his head to see what he was thinking.

The thing I liked most is that the author didn’t take the easy road with her characters, plot or the overall theme. Her choices were not always easy, but she made them with confidence.  I also loved how Will, a broken man, who has lived a fulfilling life, inspires a directionless Louisa to live to her potential.

I love when Will tells Louisa to “Live boldly. Push yourself. Don’t settle. Wear those stripy legs with pride.  Just live well.”

Overall I think this is a lovely read with plenty of humor and poignancy.  I smiled.  I laughed.  I cried.  It’s definitely a book that leaves you thinking, ‘What would I do…?’

You can find other books written by author JoJo Moyes on her website:  http://www.jojomoyes.com/.

Your turn:  Did you find this review to be helpful?  Do you think you’ll be adding it to your reading list this year?  Feel free to let me know in the comments.

Books for Adults

What I’m Reading (in June 2015)

I’m in Houston, TX this week for a training course for work, but I wanted to write a quick post to let you know a book I started reading Sunday while on the plane.

This book has been on my list of books to read so I’m happy I’m finally getting around to it.  It has over 5,800 5 star reviews from others on Amazon so I’m looking forward to see if my rating will be 5 stars as well.  I will say that so far I honestly can’t put this book down so it looks like it will be a winner!

I’ll be back next week with a new list of books I’ll be reading to the kids in June as well as Father’s Day book suggestions and the June newsletter.

Status: Finished

Me Before You by JoJo Moyes

Me Before You brings to life two people who couldn’t have less in common—a heartbreakingly romantic novel that asks, What do you do when making the person you love happy also means breaking your own heart?  Read my review of this book here.

Status: Finished

The Traveler’s Gift: Seven Decisions that Determine Personal Success
by Andy Andrews

I loved the book The Noticer by Andy Andrews so much that I just had to add this book to my to-read list.  (Check out my post from February 2015)  I have heard nothing but good things about this book so I’m excited to dig in!  If you’re into Podcasts, Andy also has a wonderful podcast you may want to check out.

Your turn:  Have you read either of these books before?  If so, feel free to let me know your thoughts in the comments.

Books for Adults

What I’m Reading (in May 2015)

Below are the two books I plan to read this month.  What books do you have in your queue for the month of May?  Feel free to let me know in the comments.

Design Mom: How to Live With Kids A Room-By-Room Guide by Gabrielle Stanley Blair

Status: Finished

 

In this book Gabrielle Stanley Blair offers a room-by-room guide to keeping things sane, organized, creative, and stylish. She provides advice on getting the most out of even the smallest spaces; simple fixes that make it easy for little ones to help out around the house; ingenious storage solutions for the never-ending stream of kid stuff; rainy-day DIY projects; and much, much more.
Time Management Magic: How To Get More Done Every Day And Move From Surviving To Thriving by Lee Cockerell

Status: Finished

Executive Time Management Secrets from a Life at Disney… During Lee Cockerell’s career at Disney as the Senior Operating Executive of Walt Disney World Resort, he led a team of 40,000 Cast Members (employees) and was responsible for the operations of 20 resort hotels, 4 theme parks, 2 water parks and the ESPN Sports Complex. As you can imagine, Lee had to become a time management expert, first as a means of survival and then as a way to help others make the best use of their time. The time management secrets he developed have become one of his most requested corporate training lectures and are now available to you in this tell–all book.
reading tips

Finding Time to Read

Over the weekend someone asked me, “How do you find time to read when you have two small kids?”  My answer was simple: I make reading a priority.  I’m a true believer that people make or find time to do things that matter or are important to them.  Therefore, I make daily reading one of my priorities.

I love reading. I love pushing myself to read, and I love making it a priority. I find it motivating to set big reading goals. But my highest priority ISN’T the total number of books I finish, but rather about being transformed by what I read. It’s about growing as a person. It’s about developing as a believer and of course being entertained in the process.

I know you’re thinking that sounds great, but how can I manage to read with everything else I need to do?  Well, if you want to get into the habit of reading more here are a few tips:

1. MAKE IT A PRIORITY.

One of my weird pet peeves is when people complain about not ‘having’ enough time to do things.  Their excuse always starts off with, “I don’t have time to do this or I don’t have time to do that.”  Everyone has the same number of hours in a day, and if you truly WANT to read more you may have to CHOOSE reading over other things you also enjoy.  For example: watching television, surfing the Internet, etc.

2. MAKE READING PART OF YOUR DAILY ROUTINE.

I tend to read first thing in the morning when I wake up, during lunch time and right before bed.  By making reading a habit you’ll be surprised how many books you can get through without consciously working at it.

I find if reading isn’t part of my regular routine, it’s easy to let days and weeks or even months go by without reading something. Once something is part of my daily routine I don’t have to think about whether or not I’ve done it today; of course I have, right when I always do.

3. READ IN SNIPPETS

What does this mean? It means while the water is heating for a cup of tea, I can read a page. It means when the kids are playing quietly for a few minutes, I can read another page. Anytime I have a moment, I can read a paragraph or maybe more. The key is to always have something to read with me.  Yes, I usually have a book stashed away in my purse or in the car.

4. READ WHAT YOU LIKE.

This one should go without saying, but many people tend to gravitate toward books that come highly recommended by others.  I’ve fallen into this trap before too.  Just because it’s a best seller, recommended by your best friend, co-worker, or recommended by a favorite resource, doesn’t mean that the book will be right for you. That’s ok – read what you like.

5. “READ” AUDIO BOOKS

When I had a daily commute into the office I made great use of that driving time by listening to audio books.  Now since I work from home I use audio books less often than I used to.  However, I still do use them on occasion when driving around town in the car by myself or with the kids.

My library had a great selection, but if yours doesn’t, I’ve heard great things about the Audible program as a way to get audio books. My library offers books as CDs you can borrow, or as MP3 downloads you can get from home. Super simple, once you get it set up initially.

No commute? I’ve listened to audio books while cleaning the house, exercising, or working on jigsaw puzzles.

And keep in mind, narrators can make or break an audio book, so if you try one and don’t like it, don’t write off the entire realm of audio books. Try a different book (maybe even a different sort of book), and a different narrator to see if you enjoy it that way.

6. READ TO YOUR KIDS

Not only does this help develop a passion for reading in your children, it fosters a close relationship and lets you read more. Win, win, and win!

You may have to be selective in the choice of reading material when you’re reading it aloud to your children, but there are plenty of great books for all ages. I fully agree with C.S. Lewis’ thoughts that a book that isn’t worth reading when you’re an adult isn’t worth reading when you’re a child.

So there you have it!  See how easy it is to find more time to read if you truly want to do it?
These tips are are pretty basic, but when put together they all add up. Ten minutes here, forty minutes there, and pretty soon, you’ve got a book read!  I hope this inspires you to make reading a priority in your life if you’ve decided that it is important to you.

What are your thoughts?  How do you find time to read? Is there anything you’re spending time doing that you could cut back to allow more reading time?

Books for Adults

Sneak Peek: My April Book Selection

 

Are your kids picky eaters?  My kids are both very good eaters for the most part.  However, as they’re getting older I’m noticing they are becoming picky sometimes.  There have even been times when they gripe about the foods I put on their plates. Sometimes their likes change… mid-bite.  Don’t you hate it when they spit out their food?

While searching online about ways to deal with picky kids I came across this gem that I’ll be reading in April: French Kids Eat Everything by Karen Le Billion.  I’ve heard people sing its praises, and it’s been one of those books on my “to-read” list since last summer. Let me tell you a bit about it.

As the cover of the book states, Karen Le Billon and her husband moved their family from North America to France where they “cured” picky eating, quit giving their kids snacks, and started living by 10 simple rules that eventually taught her kids to be happy eaters who eat healthy food.

Over the course of the book French Kids Eat Everything, Karen shares her experience as well as the 10 rules she has adopted for her family that made her kids go from picky to happy, healthy eaters. Some of these rules are French food rules and some are French parenting styles. No matter, I’m sure there’s plenty of wisdom for us American parents in this book. I personally can’t wait to read it!

And just for the record, this book isn’t all advice and information. There are recipes scattered throughout. Another thing I’m looking forward to trying… French recipes!  I love France and hope to visit there…someday.

So do you have picky kids? Are you tired of struggling? Do you want to cut snacks out of your kids’ diet?  If so, this book may offer you some help, and I’m inviting you to join me in reading it too so we can find some nuggets of wisdom together!

Happy Reading!

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